The Method

A framework, not a formula.

The Valence Method is built on a single premise: the information you need to make better dating decisions is already in front of you. You are not missing data. You are misreading signals.

This is not therapy. We do not treat mental health conditions, diagnose attachment disorders, or process trauma. This is not coaching in the "accountability partner" sense. We are not going to ask you to journal or affirm anything.

This is applied signal reading. A structured methodology for interpreting what people show you through their behavior -- and making faster, clearer decisions about who is worth your investment.